Own your body. Free your mind.

Experience the specific pleasure of who you are.

The Relaxed Woman System

Discover the complete path home to yourself. The Relaxed Woman System brings together the science-backed body reset of Vital Mind Reset with the relational power of Reclaimed—so you don’t just heal, you thrive. One without the other leaves progress incomplete. Together, they deliver lasting transformation.

Jump to 1:04:02 for the full scoop on the Relaxed Woman System

Nope. This isn’t you. This isn’t how it was supposed to be.

Nope. This isn’t you. This isn’t how it was supposed to be.

The vision for your life was clear.

Soft and silky. Dripped in gold. Wrapped in lace. 

(Whatever textures bring you pleasure were meant to be yours)

You desired to be her.

The adored wife.

The seen, appreciated, and "she's got it going on" kind of mom.

The soulful CEO and successful seductress WOW’ing the world with her wide-open receivership of abundance, providership and devotional care.

All experienced through a vital body, safe-haven soma, and a relaxed system (that feels equally-erogenous when grazed by the textures of mothering, business’ing or wife’ing).

Wasn’t that your birthright, lovely human?

Birthright, Interrupted.

But somehow, somewhere, you got pulled off that dreamy path.

You lost sight of her. And in turn, slipped into the jagged lifescape of:

The business owner that just boss-babe’d her way to a promotion or record-setting month, but can’t take a spa day without feeling like she’s letting someone down or demanding too much by asking her team to run the show or her husband to watch the kids for exactly 3.7 hours.

The on-edge, “doing it all, while resenting everyone” mom, snapping at her kid for merely existing, and struggling to self-regulate-on-the-fly as they protest for six more minutes of screen-time or a non-organic slice of Betty Crocker at some kid’s party hosted by their basic mom who could care less that she just crashed the entire class’s insulin resistance.

("And why is no one else getting triggered?" And "why am I so judgy?" And "Whyyyyy does my husband get to stay home?" And "Why aren’t we homeschooling on our acreage farm yet?" And, "Why,why, why?!!!!").

Birthright, Interrupted.

Or maybe you’ve regressed into the intolerable hell of…

The wilting wife, closed-up and calloused by every cadaverous peck, weathered by the endless string of depolarized exchanges (hello parenting?), and wondering if the tortuous concoction of constant agitation, chronic disappointment and a stale, too-tight box of a marriage void of eros and charm has simply become your new normal.

And yeah. You know he hasn’t gotten “the best” of you in months or years either.

But because you now only know him through a contracted and rigid system governed by wounded parts waging a silent war who don’t even believe he’s deserving of it anymore — you can’t even fathom a devotional offering of respect, reverence or the lusty stuff without the sting of self-abandonment.

But still… would it kill him to tell you that you look hot in those new lulus?

You’ve accidentally enrolled yourself into an unbearable legacy of over-giving and under-receiving… and don’t know how to break the spell and divorce the bullsh*t without going feral and burning sh*t to the ground

In short…

You’ve accidentally enrolled yourself into an unbearable legacy of over-giving and under-receiving… and don’t know how to break the spell and divorce the chronic disappointment without going feral and burning it all to the ground

You’re at your edge.

The silent scream rages louder inside — but still goes unheard by those around you. Especially those who you need to hear it.

You’ve tried to “talk about it”, but the only ones who get it are the other bitter, two-months-from-divorce women who can only affirm the agony and offer the so-called gift of shared suffering… and maybe a referral to a “great therapist” working next to the Starbucks of some suburban stripmall.

But you don’t want to express your feelings (again).

You don’t want to self-censor and speak ‘non-violently”.

There ain’t nothing “nonviolent” about it. Because…

This just isn't it.

Failing and flat-lining as you fight to uphold a reality that no longer turns you on?

Nope, not it.

Holding back the silent scream hoping that one day it just self-soothes back into a peace treaty with your business, your kids, your husband and reality itself?

Nope. You know “the body keeps score” and you’re really scared to look up at the scoreboard. 

Waiting for some mythical “someday” when the kids are older, your man “gets it”, and everything just falls into place?

Urgent longings don’t tend to play nice with indefinite timelines.

Urgent longings don’t tend to play nice with indefinite timelines.

Especially not when you feel tapped out, bled-dry and unloved by the constantly “Extracting Other”

Most days you feel like mother earth herself being drilled into for more oil while you’re expected to be a grateful good-girl and say “more please” to some false-daddy who’s done nothing to earn the claim.

And even if you’ve mantra’d, mind-setted and “mental-health day’d” your way into toughing it out, weathering the storm, or stitching on the girl scout badge of resilience…

Your body is screaming NO.

It’s dried up, closed shut, and calcified within the posture of perpetual rage, always seething under the surface.

And all those “out of nowhere” symptoms like brain fog, bad sleep and gut bloat that refuses to shrink (even after 19 Peloton sessions sweated out next to a digital army of Stepford Wives), are your body’s messengers telling you that it’s willing to self-destruct within some infernal, self-created hell-hole if that’s what it takes to make sure the “Extracting Other” doesn’t get another damn drop.

Which led you straight into the jaws of another trap — the false reclamation.

Your interrupted birthright became a false reclamation.

Maybe the pendulum swung too far the other way, and your legacy of over-giving shifted into an insistence in over-taking (not to be confused with receiving).

I mean, don’t they all know it’s your turn now? Didn’t they see the sacrifice? Didn’t they notice and appreciate all those so-called gifts you burnt yourself out to offer? Don’t they want to reciprocate with the soul-deep CPR needed to breathe life back into your inner martyr?

Problem is, “gifts” given with silent-scorn, shadow resentment, and severe dysregulation rarely get experienced as life-giving by others.

And now the entitled battlecry of “it’s my turn to take” is only turning them off more and making you feel even more abandoned and uncared for.

Cause yeah… what business, child, husband or sky-daddy wants to gift it all to the wounded woman who feels perpetually owed-to and insistent on collecting.

Fair or not, as you’ve experienced, a violent reclamation never yielded lasting harmony.

A dysregulated reclamation is unclean and “takes” from all those it perceives has taken.

It doesn’t enrich relationships.

It doesn’t expand abundance.

It's a harsh and rigid attack on the perceived oppressors and “extracting others” that your internatlized filters made your husband, your employees, your children or your career to be.

When Violent (& False) Reclamation Fails, Maybe You Merged Into The “Sacred Feminine” Empowerment Lane

You squeeze into the sexy red dress to tap into your maiden/huntress.

And it all works for a split second until you sober back up, self-diminish, and your wired-for-defeat nervous system tells you you’re just playing some ridiculous game of spiritual dressup.

From here, you may come to the truth that:

You can sit in circle, draw cards, track cycles, juice cleanse and cast spells all day long… but without a nervous system wired for your YES, you'll continue to *only* be available for your NO.

Your nervous system controls every system in your body (think hormones, digestion, detox) and is responsible for how well you handle “negative” emotions and how well you hold “positive” ones.

And when you’re relating to your man, your business or your kids through the somatic lens of fight, flight, fawn, or freeze...

Nothing. I repeat nothing they do (or don’t do) will ever signal safety (let alone) ecstatic pleasure, safety and abundance in your body.

But on the other hand…

When Violent (& False) Reclamation Fails, Maybe You Merged Into The “Sacred Feminine” Empowerment Lane

A Woman With a Calm & Open Nervous System
is an Ecstatic Force of Nature

A relaxed woman is the most powerful woman on this plane.

She manifests support — compels care and adoration — and lives her life through a spacious and pleasurable sense of ease that’s undeniably magnetic to men, money and her highest timeline.

You may think that you need to “practice,” “learn,” or “study” how to be more soft, slow, abundant, and pleasure-led.

You may think you need to find the perfect couples’ therapist to get your man to see what you’ve been needing.

You may think that you need to hire that business or marketing coach who will ease the pressure and crack the code of your work life balance. But…

What you really need is a safe and sound nervous system so you can soften, receive, slow down and shed the achiever identity that has you running ragged.

Your femininity naturally and spontaneously emerges when you feel safe.

A Calm, Open & Wired-For-Pleasure Nervous System Is The Difference Between

01

Feeling chronically disappointed and let-down by everyone and everything around you
&
Attracting support, expansion and miraculous "I can't believe that was so easy" breakthroughs in your life, business and relationship

02

Being triggered by the slightest misfire (and all the useless drama and momentum-crushing chaos with team members, kids and spouses)
&
Being able to hold the charge, relax into safety, and responding with self-loving boundaries and grace that rally respect, care and positive change

03

Feeling closed to intimacy, stuck in relational staleness, and confused about what comes next
&
Rediscovering the natural currents of pleasure already coursing through you — feeling erogenous to reality itself — and having your man almost instantly re-orient around your new pleasure field

04

Feeling like you’re playing medical whack-a-mole with more weird symptoms in each passing year (fatigue, headaches, mental fog, weight fluctuations, breakouts, illness)
&
Feeling more vital, alive, and trusting in the miracle of your body than ever before
So…how do you go from bitter, disconnected, and dysregulated to supported, playful, and soft?

So…how do you go from bitter, disconnected, and dysregulated to supported, playful, and soft?

Here’s the wide-open secret:

It’s not going to come from “out there”.

Your man, team or business may be of service (or disservice), but they aren’t the cure.

And you most certainly won’t get it from a prescription pad.

It’s you, lovely.

It’s where your silent rage turns into sacred self-care.

It’s where you initiate your own inner masculine into devoted guardianship of your pristine, "it's time to play" feminine.

And it’s where you learn how to gift this safety to yourself and to attract those who love offering it so that you can finally shift out of your chronic vigilance, your weekly headaches, or your lifelong fatigue or insomnia — no doctor, therapist or guru required. 

Come Alive As a Woman With Me

REGULATE YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM, DISCOVER THE SOURCE OF YOUR PAIN, THE ONLY SPIRITUAL PRACTICE YOU’LL EVER NEED, AND THE KEY TO TRUE POWER AS A WOMAN

You need a huge permission field, clear, manageable steps, and my fairy dust to help you remember who you are.

My fairy dust?

I am a shadow huntress of the most loving variety.

I keep it raw and real.

I am practical and totally direct.

And I am, afterall, an ivy-league trained psychiatrist turned renegade activist turned pole dancer so I know a thing-or-2 about changing one’s story.

I’m in the business of real, measurable transformation and have proven my capacity to grow this field for women in my practice, live events and online programs.

I am a catalyst.

Own your body. Free your mind. Reclaim your relationships.

Relaxed Woman System

You’ve done the diets. The therapy. The inner work.

You’re “aware,” but still exhausted, resentful, triggered, and tight in your own skin.

The Relaxed Woman System is a revolutionary 6-month journey that combines body-based healing with relational mastery—so you can finally feel safe, soft, powerful… and free.

Step 1: Reset your nervous system and reclaim your body with my clinically proven holistic health protocol

Step 2: Heal your heart and transform your relationships as you divorce yourself from victim consciousness once and for all (it's time to move from victim to vixen)

So you can finally CLAIM the fully enlivened life that comes from breaking down the glass wall, and shattering any glass ceilings you've put on your capacity to experience the specific pleasure of who you are. Where all shades of the feminine are invited to the party, and you feel (perhaps for the first time in your life): FULLY ALIVE. 

This is the last program you’ll ever need to come home to yourself.

Step 1

Start the relaxed woman System Journey Here

VItal Mind Reset

Vital woman Edition

A Luscious and Life-Giving Return Back to The Adored, Empowered & Primed-For-Pleasure Woman You Forgot You Already Are

Vital Mind Reset - Vital Woman Edition

VMR Vital Woman Edition is a brand new offering designed for women like you to reset their mind, reclaim their health, and recode their system for pleasure, joy, abundance and sweet feminine softness across all the roles they’ve been gifted in their lives.

01. Get Your Somatics Back On Your Side

You’ll upgrade your system from a barbed-wired fortress to a safe haven of allowance. Where you can receive care, welcome abundance, and relish in nurturance without waiting for the other shoe to drop or being guarded against some imagined, unspoken quid pro quo that you now feel indebted for.

02. Recalibrate Your Nervous System For a New, Erogenous Set-Point

Where the subtle cues like your man’s scent (or the way he hammers a nail) turns you on again. Where doing dishes feels devotional and pleasurable rather than another thankless chore. Where your kid’s silliness that once triggered you, now brings rapturous belly laughs. And where your business starts feeling like a steady, stable and providing “husband” instead of a dramatic man-child.

03. Pleasure-Fill Your Mothering, Marriage & Business Possibility Fields From a Sweet Table of Audacious, Tasty & “Mmmm More Please”  Permission Slips

We don’t stop at some unsexy return to “neutral”. Once you’ve restored your body and nervous system’s most perfect and flowing “factory settings” — you’ll get to rewire it for radical new possibilities… so that… you know… you don’t just fall back into habitual patterns and that old, “too-tight’ lifescape. 

You’ll set your foundation with our history-making flagship program, Vital Mind Reset.

Over 2,500 women have experienced the magic of this 44 day holistic protocol that leaves no stone unturned in healing your nervous system, detoxing your body and resolving all those weird-ass and unrelenting symptoms that are quickly bridging into “scary territory”.

Expertly layering in diet, detox, and deep spiritual work, and backed by dozens of published medical studies and randomized clinical trials, VMR is quite possibly the most proven and tested natural healing protocol on the planet.

Highlights

  • Expose and bust the myths that are keeping you tired, confused and burnt out

  • Prepare yourself for healing by removing the inner (and outer) obstacles that stand in your way

  • Nurture and support your microbiome and get to know your gut so you can move towards healing any inflammation and connection-killing mood imbalances that your current diet might be causing

I couldn’t believe there was such a huge part of me I had overlooked OR that there was a process to reclaim this part. I could not even hold a clear thought before starting Vital Mind Reset. And since taking it – brain fog, GONE, depression: evaporated. What I really gained from this program was a clear pathway to take responsibility for my health and well being at a deeper level than I even imagined possible.

I do not believe there’s a better gift you can give someone than greater than more access to OWNERSHIP of oneself.”

- Mama Gena

Best-selling author, founder and CEO of the School of Womanly Arts.

Experience history-making outcomes

It’s not rocket science. We just haven’t been shown what healing capacities our bodies are truly capable of when we clear the slate and return to basics. View our published science below.

Explore our program's randomized clinical trial here.

This landmark, randomized, controlled clinical trial of our online protocol, Vital Mind Reset, demonstrates the power of lifestyle interventions to significantly relieve depressive symptoms and improve quality of life in as little as 44 days.

Vital Mind Reset Has Been Responsible for More Life-Shifting Upgrades Than This Single Page Can Handle

10 Days in, and I can already feel the benefits

"Two months ago, I sat in my psychiatrist’s office, crying tears of frustration as I was handed another prescription. I could tell my body would fight it before it would adequately relieve my debilitating depression and anxiety. [Fast forward, and now] I’m so thankful for Kelly Brogan, VMR and for this courageous field of health seekers. Ten days in, and I can already feel the benefits of daily meditation. I am hopeful and excited. Joy is creeping back into my life!"

- Meredith

From fear and distrust, to such deep reverence and trust for my body

"This program shifts your entire perspective and relationship with your body. Mine went from one of fear and distrust, pathologizing myself all the time. To such a deep place of reverence and trust for my body. [Before VMR,] I didn't know what it was like to have self-ownership or believe in the body’s intelligence. The gift of this reset is it helps you untangle the indoctrination we’ve all experienced. There's nothing like believing in your body's ability to heal. Once you see it, there’s no going back."

- VMR Student

A Deeper Gift Than I Could Possibly Express

"My entire life has revolved around an intense striving to be better. I was attuned to struggle and suffering. I believed my value was how much pain I could push through. Over the past 44 days, I could truly feel that falling away. This has been a deeper gift than I could possibly express. Being able to feel the enjoyment of inhabiting a body feels like a miracle."

- Erin

What Kelly and Jamie are offering is definitely needed all over the world

"I’ve been in many groups about all things spiritual and well-being.The amount of reiki, meditation, sound bath, and cold water plunges, but not one person mentioned sending safety to the body. This isn’t a knock to those practices, but what Kelly and Jamie are offering is definitely needed all over the world. For those starting out on this path, I’m rooting for you."

- Paula

Vital MIND RESET

MOTHERING

In Mothering, you’ll dive into a curated selection of workshops, masterclasses and interviews to help you expand into a new iteration of motherhood that gives and nourishes more than it takes and depletes.

At the core you’ll shift from feeling victimized by the mothering experience (and all its demands), resolving any subtle blame and resentment you have against your man (or reality itself), and embrace a new, soft and playful form to move you through this sacred role in the most ecstatic of ways.

Vital MIND RESET

Money

Imagine a business, career or money-life that feels life-giving instead of extracting? Imagine shifting out of victim-paradigms where you feel depleted, exhausted, and “giving more than you’re receiving” without the opp to slow-down, exhale and enjoy all you’ve even cultivated financially?

In this curated collection of permission slips (that features our Audacious Entrepreneurship masterclass), you’ll both dare to dream — AND start getting the practical tools, strategies and mindsets needed to surrender into your next level of business expansion and financial receivership.

Vital MIND RESET

Relationship

Whether you’re the most obnoxiously in-love couple on the damn block; or the flat-lining couple fighting through stagnancy, stale-ness and stubborn patterns of closure and disconnection…

Our final offering from the sweet table of permission slips will expose your newly-expanded system into new templates for healthy, thriving and “this feels soooooo good” relationships.

Featuring our best-selling masterclass “Relationship Real-Talk” as well as a curated selection of interviews, truth-transmissions and other unreleased material, you’ll sample from juicy new ideas that can give rise to radical new shifts in the way you relate (and how you inspire your man to relate with you):

Seen & Celebrated by Many of Today’s Most Respected Women’s Guides, Wisdom Keepers & Way-Showers

"Kelly Brogan, MD, stands out as a true beacon for women’s health, helping you remember that we were born to be healthy and fulfilled. . . . What a breath of fresh air!"

Christiane Northrup, MD

New York Times bestselling author of Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom

"…will wake you up out of the haze of overwhelm, numbness, and resentment so you can compassionately understand yourself and struggles before leading you back home to your body and soul."

Dr. Nicole Lepera

Author of the #1 New York Times bestseller How to Do the Work

"…a powerful invitation to dream big, enjoy your innate feminine power, and live the life you know deep down is possible."

Lauren Doyle

New York Times bestselling author of The Surrendered Wife

"Kelly is one of the most brilliant minds I have met. Her ability to tune into the kernel of an issue and to create a potent solution for it is unparalleled.

Emily Fletcher

Founder of Ziva & best selling author

"With compassion and precision wrought from both her own embodied wisdom and also from her deep medical knowledge, Dr. Brogan cleans out festering lies. . . . I want everyone alive… to endure the sting of truth, and to emerge from the experience healed and refreshed, ready to create the new culture of devotion to truth, self-responsibility, and genuine eros which we all need to thrive."

Dr. Carolyn Lovewell

Author of Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power

Entr'Acte

In between VMR (Vital Woman Edition) and Reclaimed, we take a brief pause to help you integrate & calibrate. But don't worry I'll still be walking by your side. During this pregnant pause, I'll share a curation of my very favorite resources for health + radiance (my Kelly's picks are pretty legendary because I have a knack for manifesting the very best resources to help you feel exquisite in every way). You'll also have an opportunity to dig into your bonus materials, including the Sovereignty Series & connect in our membership community, the Vital Life Project. This is going to be a juicy time to explore your renewed baseline before you get into the exhale that is Reclaimed. Speaking of Reclaimed, here's what's waiting for you inside…

Step 2

Reclaimed woman

RECLAIMED WOMAN

The Reclaimed Program

A brand new, unique roadmap to access more feminine energy,
more self-confidence, and more creativity (without trying)

VMR Vital Woman Edition is a brand new offering designed for women like you to reset their mind, reclaim their health, and recode their system for pleasure, joy, abundance and sweet feminine softness across all the roles they’ve been gifted in their lives.

In this best-in-class program, you’ll learn:

01

Where and why you’re giving your power away leading to resentment and overwhelm

02

How to be the Queen who lives among Kings

03

The best practical exercises to offer your body safety now

04

How to align with desire without desperation, hoping, and wishing

All framed within the story of the Handless Maiden (the great heroine’s journey) and full of short and sweet but powerful practices (audio and visual) to guide your daily exploration.

Module 1: Get Real

  • Learn to identify the sources of energy drain in your life and where they are (cleverly) hiding
  • Spot victim consciousness and do not take the bait
  • Learn why (because suffering ends where meaning begins) you developed patterns thanks to your mama and papa
  • Understand that the war between your inner energies is the *same* one that we are experiencing between men and women in the collective

Module 2: Woman Up

  • Wake up out of the haze of feminist programing and claim your true power as a woman (hint, it’s not righteous anger)
  • Explore your sense of where sex belongs in your life and where shame may be costing you
  • Understand eroticized wounds and the ways that we derive pleasure from struggle

Module 3: NO

  • How to recognize self-initiatory episodes (and moments) in your life and learn why to get excited about confusion and disorientation
  • Learn the key to accessing feminine energy without any effort
  • Learn the mantra and life philosophy that will short-circuit your most painful patterns
  • Appreciate the power of the only spiritual practice you’ll ever need (no morning meditating required)
  • Delight in others’ criticism and judgment and laugh at your own
  • Practice many flavors of No so that your boundaries become exquisite

Module 4: YES

  • Explore the dimensions of your true desire and the kinks in the energy
  • Learn how to be full *and* want more
  • Understand why havingness is what stands between you and, well…having!
  • Learn how to want without feeling powerless, desperate, and frustrated
  • Open up to receiving and having through simple practices that teach your body it’s safe to do so
  • Learn how to ask for what you want with finesse, receive support, and walk a path that feels like destiny
  • Practice slow, everyday pleasure
  • Know what to ask yourself when you don’t have what you want

Module 5

  • Tools and tips for living the Reclaimed Woman life as a mother, business owner, lover, and wife including what it takes to eliminate patterns of scarcity, conflict, and overwhelm

Module 6: Heal The Sister Wound

  • Understand the origins of female competition and how to work with it
  • Practice expanding havingness with safe women
  • Expand permission fields essential to feminine power

And Here's What

women are saying…

This is for you if...

01

You've done ALL. The. Work. And yea, sure, you’re cool with more. But my gawd, there’s gotta be some damn juice to it this time

It can’t just be an unlubricated psycho-spiritual thrillride through your sharpest (and most stabby) edges.
That’s why you’ll appreciate that Vital includes both the contained, systematic “work”, of “Vital Mind Reset”, and the lush and lusty sweet tables of “Vital Relationship”, “Vital Mothering”, and “Vital Money” so that you could recode your system with new, empowering and life-giving possibilities across all facets of your life.

02

You no longer get off on the gold stars, “atta girl’s” or fake glitz of a “put together’ but barely held together life.

You want the damn juice (and the body that can welcome it).
Your body contracts and cringes when you think about just “getting by” on the sterile praise and token gifts of a “good career” and “good enough marriage.”
Paper accomplishments no longer cut it (and I mean, they never truly did, did they?)
It’s time to embody the “you” before the chaos, chronic symptoms and contracted state — and open yourself back up to all that’s possible with an expanded and erogenous system.

03

You’re Done Waiting For Things to magically get better (or counting on others to do it for you)

At this stage in your journey, you know that one more juice cleanse, or an extra yoga or pilates session per week isn’t going to move the needle.
It’s been your go-to, and while you enjoy the temporary hormone high — you’re ready for some soul-deep healing that resets your system at the most foundational level. And because you can only go so many more weeks or months toggling between fight, flight, and freeze before it’s time to make a change and come home to your true feminine form.
You’re ready to take action and claim this reality now.

04

You’re done kinking out on victimhood. You’re done waiting for a “savior.”

Finding a community around shared complaining might have been nice for a minute or two. But you know where that leads, and it’s not a road you care to keep riding down.
You know that things can change.
You know there’s more available for you.
And you recognize that the victim won’t be the one to lead you there.
That’s why you’re ready to heal your system, initiate your own inner masculine (with all its safety and self-containment) and allow yourself to be led into the relationship, business and family life that finally feels like “it.”

HOW DOES THE Relaxed Woman System WORK?

Let's walk you through your next steps shall we?

01

Invest & go all in on you

This is the first step in becoming the woman who puts her energetic alignment as her first priority in her life. YOU DID IT.

02

Set aside Time every week to complete the lessons

I know what makes a course powerful and what makes one a chore. I got you on streamlined digestibility.

03

Lean into the community!

We are not meant to do this work of becoming, alone. Permission field expansion comes from and through other woman.

Relaxed Woman System

THE COMMUNITY

Relaxed Woman System Community

You’re not meant to walk the path back to health, vitality and loving reclamation on your own. In fact, you’re probably SO done feeling like you’re the only woman in your circle who “gets it” — and long for those sovereign sisters who can truly see you, witness you, and walk with you across your lushy new lifescape.

Here’s what you’ll enjoy:

  • An Exclusive Library with content you won’t see anywhere else, including my library of masterclasses and health hacks, embodiment exercises, and assessments you can use to amplify or jumpstart your healing.

  • Reclamation Real Talks. Discover how to heal victim consciousness and step into your power around money, friendship, addiction, relocation, and more.

  • Sovereignty Series. Access a living library of polarizing, radical truth-telling on topics like conscious pregnancy release, moving into the private sphere, gardening for survival, the healing power of urine therapy, and more.

And here’s what women are saying…

"The group environment offers a level of support and healing that is so lovely, magical, and nourishing. I can’t even count the number of synchronicities I experienced in these last 3 months, it’s truly amazing!"
"Thank you Kelly Brogan, for your loving presence, guidance, and cheerleading on this journey. It means more than you know." – Ari
"This group is for women who are ready to take ownership over their life and get on the fast track to personal development. The group environment offers a level of support and healing that is so lovely, magical, and nourishing. I can’t even count the number of synchronicities I experienced in these last few weeks, it’s truly amazing! Thank you Kelly Brogan, for your loving presence, guidance, and cheerleading on this journey. It means more than you know. If you are ready to take the reins of your life, if you believe in the power of group healing, if you're wanting to create lasting change- Inner Circle is the place to be." — MARY J.

Meet Kelly

I grew up an Italian-Irish, know-it-all, atheist, candy-addict, straight-A MIT neuroscience major, Ivy-league trained psychiatrist specializing in medicating pregnant women, Hashimoto’s-healing renegade activist who then specialized in discontinuing psychiatric meds, publishing radical medical recoveries, and sounding the alarm on the bait-and-switch of Pharma, turned feminine reclamation and sensual embodiment seeker, honorary member of the Disinformation Dozen, health freedom lover, twerk, pole, and African dancer, mother of two sage channels of love, homebirther, chicken and cat mom, novice seamstress, here to share with you the parts I’m still discovering, the deceptions I continue to awaken from, and the secret places that my inner victim is still awaiting discovery and liberation into the art of living and loving…these days, I’m after the tingles and rushes of energy I feel in my body when I’m moving to a song, petting my animals, hugging my gorgeous girls, and laughing with my friends. I’m here to make love to life.

Q’S THAT MIGHT GET YOU  HOT(& A LIL BOTHERED) BEFORE OFFERING YOUR
Fierce YES

So yea, this page is a lil psychic. It hears those voices of protest and concern (all normal btw). Let’s break gluten-free bread with’em shall we?

Between working, mom-ing, wife-ing and life-ing, how will I make time for this?

You won’t make time for this.

You’ll reclaim time for this.

Not as an assault on the “extracting others”, but as a devotional offering back to yourself — and the woman you want to re-meet in sacred embrace, and then re-introduce to your man, your kids, and your business or career.

If necessary, you’ll reclaim some time from that 9:32 pm IG Reels numbout. You’ll invite your man to kid-proof that space. You’ll make yourself unavailable to that client, boss, co-worker that always has “just one more thing.”

And if that’s just “not practical,” “not realistic” or “only available for those lucky and supported women, but not for me”...

Then I’d dare say that the spell-break in reclaiming that time will be even more ecstatic and liberating as you slide off the self-sacrificial timeline that you’ve accidentally consented to, and instead invite the support and care from those around you.

Plus, all told – these life-giving teachings only take a few hours a week, and you get SO much time back when you take your life back. When you're devotional to yourself this way, time bends in your favor. Kind of like when the yogi tells you to meditate more if you "aint got no time for that."

K cool. I’ll carve out the time. But I’m on a bit of a budget. How will this fit?

I’m not your accountant or financial advisor.

Nor am I available for that roleplay.

But here’s what I will say…

This investment in your long-term health, vitality, and pleasure-led pursuit for more full body YES in your relationship, mothership, and career is worth a whole lot more than:

=> An iPhone 16 Pro Max (all the better to numb you with, my dear)

=> An unhinged Lulu spree to temporarily silence the inner scream

=> A “girls weekend” in Vegas or Miami (aka a short-lived balm that wears off the moment you step back in the arrivals terminal and seek out an uber instead of your adoring man)

=> Or y’know… tolerating an a few more months, years or decades of silent screams, escalating symptoms, and stinging resentment towards all those you covertly blame for draining the life force out of you.

By the way, if part of your resistance has to do with missed opportunities, past investments that left you disappointed, or "sunk costs" — all in an attempt to fix or run from yourself …  First off, I get it, I have soooooo been there.

If you've been throwing money at all the:

Retreats

Healers

Supplements

Relationship therapists

Business coaches

… to no results…

I can tell you from experience, this cycle is endless (and expensive) and ultimately feeds the wound of:  "Once I fix me, I’ll be lovable."

And secondly, I want to remind you that the Relaxed Woman System is meant to be the last personal development program you ever take. It’s the complete arc. 

To be clear, is this a “healing” & "feminine reclamation" program?

Yes. And so much more.

I created the Relaxed Woman System as a complete journey home to yourself.

Why?

Because there’s an order of operations, when it comes to the heroine’s journey home to herself. First she must claim, own, and get on the same team as her body. She must em-body. 

So you'll start with Vital Mind Reset, which is a history-making program (and health protocol) with hundreds of documented case studies and published medical literature which you can check out here.

It’s not some cutesy somatic technique or nervous system hack picked up off a tik-tok vid… but a holistic, systematic and science-backed system for lasting results.

But this goes beyond just “healing”.

After all, once factory settings are reset, how you express this newfound capacity will make all the difference between upgrading your life-scape, or slipping back into the old one.

This is where VMR Money, VMR Relationship & VMR Mothering will help introduce your new, relaxed and expanded system into a new set of possibilities and permission slips that create ripples of ecstatic change in your life.

Once you are embodied — then, you must claim, own, and get on the same team as your heart. 

Which is where The Reclaimed Program comes in.

As your system learns to rest and your heart learns to trust, everything in your orbit—relationships, worldview, your dance with flow and abundance—will naturally reorganize itself.

This 6 months of incredibly pleasurable transformation will be a line in the sand.

By April, you'll have embodied a totally new identity — where you actually feel more authentically YOU than you have since childhood (or possibly ever!).

This is both a healing and a cultivation program.

Resetting, recoding, and reclaiming your birthright as a relaxed woman.

You're gonna love it.

No 1,000 Day Unconditional No Questions Asked, Ironclad Money-Back Guarantees? Art thou mad, woman? What you hiding?

The program works. Period.

It’s also a highly-initiatory “point of no return” — and nothing can sabotage your progress quicker than the idea of some artificial escape door.

A half-hearted entry point won’t work here.

If your “no” is stronger than your “yes” — then I’ll politely suggest that this isn’t the right time for you to consider the Relaxed Woman System.

But if your fierce yes is accompanied by some inner-parts (oh hello victim), whispering its siren song of self-sabotage and self-defeat… then that’s normal.

There’s room for that. Expect it. It shall pass.

Should I ask my husband?

I love that you’re asking.

And it all depends on how you and your man manage finances, your explicit or implicit agreements, and ultimately what feels most liberating, empowering and integrity-based.

You should not, I repeat you should not sneak your way in as a silent “f-you” or payback for the plasma screen or boy’s weekend he purchased 4 years ago without your consent.

Nor should you be in a place of pleading for permission or of feeling you need to defend or justify yourself.

If you're desiring more guidance in this area — and for all your audacious asks — I recommend exploring the section "The Art of Asking for What You Want" on page 181 of my latest book, The Reclaimed Woman.

Who is this program for?

This program is for anyone looking to treat their symptoms naturally, and it's not just for women! Whether you are new to “eating clean” and living a holistic lifestyle, or you’re already familiar with this lifestyle, this protocol will give you the tools for a new start. This diet plan isn’t your average 100% organic, gluten-free, dairy-free, soy-free, corn-free elimination diet — it's a carefully selected list of foods that Dr. Brogan has identified as potential culprits behind your symptoms. The combination of the core elements of this program during a dedicated 44-day window has helped many resolve lifelong symptoms. We know there are many dietary and detox protocols out there, but this one is different.

What topics are covered in Vital Mind Reset?

This program will cover critical health freedom topics, like:

  • The system of fear and control perpetuated by the conventional Western medical model
  • The religion of science
  • The dangers of your current diet and industrial food

This program will empower you to:

  • Move past fear and trust your intuition
  • Shift your beliefs in support of your healing
  • Embrace nourishing foods
  • Harness the power of daily meditation and detox practices

I’m familiar with these concepts and I eat clean. Can this Vital Mind Reset still help me?

If you already eat clean, meditate, detox, and understand the importance of these pillars of wellness, the VMR program can still be supportive! We believe that this program will give you a unique opportunity to focus on all of these elements in a dedicated container. Many have found that just being in the VMR space was the missing link in their healing journey.

What if I don’t cook?

Diet is the core element of this program and the ability to source food and prepare meals (or have them prepared) is critical. The program does not provide meal prep support.

Is Vital Mind Reset only for treating anxiety and depression?

The Vital Mind Reset program can be done by anyone looking to achieve mental health and wellness naturally. Dr. Brogan used this same protocol for each patient, no matter their diagnosis or medical history. Women and men around the world have successfully treated not only mental health disorders with this program, but some have seen total resolution of symptoms like insomnia, brain fog, fatigue, blood sugar imbalance, and thyroid disorders, to name a few. This program was not specifically designed for weight loss.

Will Vital Mind Reset help me come off my medications? Do I have to be on medications to take VMR?

The Vital Mind Reset program is appropriate for all stages of your health journey. Dr. Brogan used this protocol in her practice to help patients heal without medications, with patients hoping to taper, and with patients hoping to recover from withdrawal symptoms after stopping medications. We believe that it’s never too late to benefit from the VMR program on your healing journey. This program will not require you to stop or taper your medications, and it is not just for those who are on medications. Many people choose to explore medication tapers following the program. Before Dr. Brogan made any changes to a patient’s medication dose, they engaged a program almost identical to this one. It is important that the body and mind be optimized prior to careful medication tapers. The tapering process is highly individualized, so it’s not possible to provide specific tapering instructions that everyone can follow in this program. However, our bonus module on tapering that unlocks after the 44 days includes some resources that we think will be helpful if tapering is something you wish to pursue.

What if I have a physical illness in addition to my mental health concerns?

You should consult your personal physician or mental health professional before you initiate any program. This program is not meant to diagnose or treat any disease. You may have special dietary considerations to consider. Everyone is different.

Should I get permission from my doctor?

We encourage all those interested in exploring lifestyle medicine to work with a practitioner versed in the art and science of nutritional healing. Referral engines are linked on our resources page. Unfortunately, nutrition is not a part of conventional medical training, so consultation with an allopathic MD may leave you feeling confused.

I’m vegan/vegetarian. Can I still do Vital Mind Reset?

While the core of the VMR program centers around a diet that is rich in animal foods as a tool for healing the mind and body, we’ve recently added vegetarian recipes for those with personal or ethical concerns, which Dr. Brogan discusses more here.

It’s worth noting that Dr. Brogan does not have clinical data from her medical practice or VMR program suggesting that a fully vegetarian diet will result in the same outcomes discussed here. We believe that a vegetarian diet during VMR will be more for those who are looking to optimize health, rather than those who are dealing with acute issues.

Our meal plans are not entirely vegan-friendly.

The success that we know is possible through this program and discuss on this page is based on the original diet consisting of animal foods. Therefore, we do not endorse the vegetarian diet we include for radical healing or for anyone with the intention of a medication taper. However, we do think it’s still possible to benefit from this program in some way while following the other elements of the program.

Please also note that the program content will still reference the benefits of an animal foods diet.

What is the format of the course?

Each lesson is available in text and audio, and includes a brief video from Dr. Brogan with her key takeaways. In addition to weekly lessons and meditation videos, the program offers worksheets, meal plans, recipes and shopping lists that you can download.

What is the diet like? What should I be prepared for?

The VMR diet most closely resembles the popular Whole30 diet, with additional eliminations.

The diet in this protocol will begin on day 16 after approximately two weeks of mindset shifts. The diet instructions will be made available on day 12 and you will be expected to begin on day 16 and continue until day 44. You do not need to be prepared to begin the diet on day one!

Will Vital Mind Reset give me meal plans to follow?

Yes! Joining VMR will give you access to comprehensive meal plans, shopping lists and recipes you can follow. However, you don’t need to follow the recipes or meal plans to achieve success in this program. As long as you follow our recommended “foods to avoid” guidelines, you can eat anything you want in any quantity.

What kind of meditation is part of Vital Mind Reset?

Meditation is a vital part of the program and Dr. Brogan shares her expertise in kundalini yoga within each module. The lessons feature a 3-minute video guiding you through each meditation, or “kriya.” If you find that kundalini is not for you, you are welcome to meditate any way you choose.

What is the difference between the information in Dr. Brogan’s books and the Vital Mind Reset program?

The VMR program covers many of the same principles you will find in Dr. Brogan’s books, NYT Bestseller A Mind of Your Own and Own Your Self. While the books include an outline of the same protocol and just a few recipes to get started, the online program takes your healing journey to the next level. The course is designed as a step-by-step, “one day at a time” guide through the program, with lessons broken down into 44 days. The program also includes a trove of resources that you won’t find in the books, including a coffee enema guide, shopping lists, meal plans, over 50 recipes, meditation videos, a guide for beyond the 44 days, and more!

What is your refund/cancellation policy?

This investment is a non-refundable purchase. We do not offer refunds or payment plan cancellations before, during, or after the program for any reason.

We would recommend anyone considering joining this group to read this page in its entirety, and to ask our team any remaining questions prior to registration. You can read our detailed policy here.

Does this program include personalized advice or time with Dr. Brogan or her team?

The VMR program was designed so that anyone can take control of their own healing. The protocol and lessons in the program are essentially the same as what Dr. Brogan used with her patients, no matter the diagnosis or medical history.

The program does not include personalized access, calls, sessions, testing or medical history review with Dr. Brogan or her team.

Any personal questions related to your medical history or current conditions are best directed to your holistically-minded practitioner.

Many ask if we are able to provide a formal invoice for their purchase to submit to insurance. Please note that by purchasing VMR, you are not considered to be a patient of Dr. Brogan. Therefore, we are not able to provide this information.

Are there any additional expenses when doing the program?

The program will ask you to eat 100% organic for 30 days, which may be an added expense for those not eating this way prior to the program.

Coffee enemas are also recommended in the program and the supplies needed can cost around $50 depending on what items you may already have at home.

You'll be asked to cook all meals in non-toxic cookware, so this may be the greatest expense for those who only have non-stick cookware at home.

You'll also be asked to start replacing all toxic cleaning and personal care products. These replacements can be gradual and do not have to happen all at once or be completed before the program is finished.

The program does not include supplements.

Can I give this program as a gift to a friend or family member?

Because of the level of personal commitment required to complete this program, we do not recommend that you register on behalf of another or purchase this program as a gift. If you choose to do this, kindly note our refund policy.

Can I do the program at my own pace or skip ahead?

The VMR protocol is meant to be done over 44 consecutive days. The program materials are released on a schedule, so you will only have access to the next 6-8 days as the program progresses. For best results, we do not recommend reading more than one lesson each day.

If you find that you'd like to go through at a slower pace, you can feel free to do so. However, the results discussed on this page are based on doing the program as presented. The diet should be done for 30 consecutive days.

Many people join the program hoping to gain access to the diet information or our medication tapering resources on day one. Please be aware that we are not able to unlock modules or program content in advance of the fixed schedule. We understand that many of you come to us at different intervals of this journey, but in order to ensure that this protocol is being done safely and will produce the best results, we are not able to honor requests to expedite content release.

I want to join VMR now, but I can't begin the program right away. Can I still register?

For best results, we recommend beginning the program at a time that's easiest for you to commit to the radical lifestyle change to come. The results we discuss are possible only through 30 consecutive days of the diet. We don't suggest you begin the program if you have travel planned, a move, a special event, visitors, or won't have access to your own kitchen during the 44 days. If you are not able to commit to doing this program for 30 consecutive days once the diet begins on day 12, we recommend purchasing at another time.

How long will I have access to The Relaxed Woman System and the community?

All participants will have 6 months access to the Relaxed Woman System program and community with options to extend if needed.


Here’s Everything You Get Inside
The Relaxed Woman System

SELF STUDY

Full Relaxed Woman System Curriculum

  • Part I: VMR 44-Day Reset - Value: $2999

  • Part II: Reclaimed - Value: $2999

Guided Support

  • Guided 6-Month Arc to ensure you complete both programs - Value: $997

  • Practices to expand your nervous system capacity & translate gains into daily life - Value: $497

Tools & Resources

  • Private member portal with step-by-step lessons & resources - Value: $997

  • Private community for connection & peer support - Value: $497

VIP

Everything in SELF STUDY PLUS…

  • Continued access to coaching call recordings - Value: $600

  • 1:1 Private Coaching tailored to your unique journey - Value: $7500+

  • 6 additional months of access to everything - Value: $600

Relaxed Woman System

🎁 Total Value

Self-Study: $10,486

VIP: $23,183

👉 Your Investment

Self-Study: $2999

VIP: $6999

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